I was FRUSTRATED.
I was tired of being the nerd everyone was making fun of, and always hearing women say "I really like you... as a FRIEND..."
I was tired of not being able to walk up to that girl that I REALLY wanted to talk to... feeling like I just wasn't good enough...
So just how these stories go, one day I set out to find how I could figure this out.
And after doing the usual - google search, books to read, youtube videos to see what "experts" have to say...
I kept bumping into the same roadblock.
Everything I found had one same commonality.
Everything was just PARTS of a bigger picture, but not the ENTIRE picture.
Some guru would say "Oh you should work on your confidence" while another would say "You have to learn the right words to make her like you...".
NOTHING really had the whole picture in place that would answer a simple question:
"What does it really take?"
No one could really explain this in a way that would make any sense, so I had to go at it by myself.
I finally put it together when I made this discovery:
Becoming good with women isn't about ONE thing... but it requires you to handle 4 key areas of yourself
It's not about just learning "what to say" and "not caring what anyone thinks..."
It's also not about learning a few good lines or "angles" of what works...
If you do that, you'll always be coming back to the same issue.
What I found is that, if you want to become great with women, there are 4 KEY areas that you need to address and fix.
As I like to call them, CORES.
When I handled this 4 CORES, my dating life transformed.
I didn't have to try so hard to meet beautiful women from all around the world.
I didn't have to stretch and play mental gymnastics to make girls to like me...
But I could just relax, be myself, and women would want to be with me.... NATURALLY.
And right now, I want to share with you these 4 cores.
Now let me make a bold statement here:
If you master these 4 areas, YOU WILL become great with women even if you never had success with women before.
So what's the first one?
CORE #1 is CONFIDENCE: Change how you think women SEE YOU and what they THINK ABOUT YOU as a man.
This was THE hidden piece that caused me the GREATEST amount of frustration in my journey.
Because I would learn all these "approaches" that were suppose to make me great with women... but when I tried them, they simply didn't work.
And it took me a LOOONG time to figure this one out.
It was one of the most kept secrets EVER.
What is it?
It's how you SEE yourself compared to WOMEN.
What do I mean?
Well for most guys, they don't really see themselves as all-that.
They mostly see themselves as "average", who IF they're lucky, some woman may find them interesting and will want to go out with them.
I used to always think that the girls I was dating would find someone better than me...
...women somehow always found a way to meet someone "better" than me.
Here's the thing:
Women are VERY intuitive... and can pick up on subtle cues from your subconscious about how you REALLY feel about yourself.
However you THINK about yourself INTERNALLY... is what you'll be projecting onto women EXTERNALLY.
Imagine yourself like a giant human projector - and women are the canvas that you're projecting that image on.
...women will think you're too short.
...then women won't text or call after the 2nd date.
...than thats EXACTLY what she'll think too.
It's like magic.
You CAN'T hide this.
We all have an unconscious image in our mind of how we THINK women feel about us.
This image tells you whether you are...
And based on how you THINK about yourself is how women will PERCEIVE you.
If you want to succeed with women, the very FIRST thing you have to change is HOW you think about yourself COMPARED to women.
Literally NO TECHNIQUE will ever help you succeed with women if you have a INFERIOR image of yourself compared to women - if you see yourself as not desirable, not attractive and with no value to offer.
Your CORE will be messed up, and it will be like spraying the best cologne on dog pop. No matter which cologne you put on, it will still stink.
You will TRY and you will FAIL.
You have to come to a point of seeing yourself as a truly attractive man who women would be interested in just by BEING around.
Is this making sense?
Let's go to number 2.
CORE #2 FEAR: Dealing with your discomfort about walking up to a woman and starting a conversation
One of the corner stones of success with women is the ability to approach them - and engage them in a conversation.
So how do you feel about walking up to a girl, and starting a conversation?
Do you feel comfortable, at ease, radiating with pure confidence?
If you're like 90% of guys, you probably don't.
Most guys have a high level resistance towards walking up to a girl they never met before, and just striking up a conversation.
One of the biggest realisations I've ever had was that women don't really want to hurt you.
They don't want to humiliate you or make you look bad.
Most women, and I say MOST (not all) are fairly open to being approached to by a guy... IF he does it RIGHT.
So going back to the previous example, what would happen if you wanted to walk up to a girl...
But felt really uncomfortable about it....
And just as you were ready to turn around and walk away, someone walked up to you and told you that THAT girl is secretly checking you out... and wants to approach you but she feels really shy and uncomfortable.
How would that change your perspective?
Would you still feel the same level of shyness and discomfort?
Or would you be hit with a sudden burst of CONFIDENCE?
I would bet the latter.
Again, it's all in your head.
And I know it's one thing to read about this, and another to actually live it.
....but what if someone could help you see things that way PERMANENTLY?
CORE #3 ATTRACTION: Understanding what causes women to actually be INTERESTED in a man and see him as dating potential (and not just a friend).
This has literally nothing with the brand of your car or the size of your wallet.
Even your not-so-good-looks are irrelevant.
When you think that "she's simply out of your league" because you're not rich, or you're not 6'4 or you're simply not handsome enough... you just put yourself out of her league by saying that.
Primarily, women are interested in a guy that BELIEVES he deserves to be with her (how's that for a statement?) and then KNOWS what to DO to make her FEEL like a WOMAN.
And do you know how you make a woman feel like a WOMAN?
It's simple, you have to let her know, that she is in the presence of a MAN.
And this doesn't mean you push out your beer belly and hit her on the head with a bat, Bubba.
2 + 2 = how much?
Well what if I told you, that just like that simple, logical formula, there is a simple, logical formula of specific qualities that make a woman feel ATTRACTED and INTERESTED in you as a man... and not just as a friend?
And what if someone could teach you that?
CORE #4 THE MECHANICS: Knowing the SEQUENCE of what needs to happen to go from meeting a girl, to actually dating her (and how to apply that sequence).
The final core is what I call the mechanics.
This is the "how-to".
How to go from just seeing her somewhere (like a bar, club or walking down the street), to actually walking up to her and starting a conversation. What are the exact WORDS to use?
How to keep a conversation going so it feels interesting - what topics to use, and how to use them? What do you SAY?
How to show her that you're interested in something MORE than just being her friend? Literally, HOW do you do that? What words do you use?
And how do you lead things to the next level? How do you ask for her number? Specifically, what are the words you use to suggest you want her number? How do you text or call her to ask her out? What do you say to literally arrange a date? What should you do on that date?
Those are the mechanics.
The mechanics are not where you should focus on the most - because the game is mostly played in the first 3 CORES. But, just like a car can not run on 3 wheels alone, you need this one too.
It sound a lot, right?
Well, that because IT IS.
You don't go from being an average joe to being James Bond over night.
It takes some work.
What if someone had a system in place, that would help you develop ALL of these 4 cores SYSTEMATICALLY?
What if you didn't have to go all around and try to find ways to hack this... patching things up with a random video/article here and there...?
What if someone developed a system that PREDICTABLY develops guys like on an assembly line, that takes you BY THE HAND and leads you through the way?
I wouldn't be writing this letter if I didn't have this figured out.
I wouldn't be bragging about I can get you results if I didn't already helped HUNDREDS of guys completely turn their dating life (and themselves) around.
It's one thing to be good at something, but something completely different to be able to TRANSFER that knowledge and skill onto someone else.
That's why I devoted the past decade of my life exclusively on mastering the art of TRANSFERING this skill called "being good with women" onto you.
And this is what 4CORE is all about.
In it, I don't just tell you WHAT to do and HOW you need to do it...
But I TRANSFER that skill onto you and make you ABLE to do those things once you learn them.
How do I do it?
For EVERY of the 4 CORES I created a corresponding SYSTEM for transfer.
So the Confidence Core has 4 pillars, and a system for transferring them inside of you.
Attraction core also has 4 pillars, and a system for transferring those 4 pillars to you.
Now the best part of this is that this doesn't take you YEARS... (like it took me)
But I can help you in...
Give me 90 days, and I will turn you into a social beast - or butterfly - whatever sits better with you.
Now, just to set the record straight.
Why am I doing this?
Why do I bother with helping guys become good in this area?
Is it for the money?
Well, I mean, I have to fill up my fridge and keep the electricity on (it's kinda important)...
But here's the REAL reason I do it:
It's much simpler...
And much more powerful.
It is simply this:
I enjoy it.
I enjoy seeing a guy go from a place of confusion, frustration and inner doubt...
To a place of clarity, confidence and conviction about himself.
I love seing a guy who people doubt (including himself) transform himself into a guy that people admire.
I just get a kick out of it.
I mean, imagine there's this BIG problem in the world... and a lot of people are affect by it...
And you have the power to fix it?
How awesome is that?
So that's why I do it.
As someone who's been there and has experienced what you're probably experiencing on a regular basis, I KNOW how fucking painful it is to watch a girl you REALY like and not say a WORD.
I KNOW how it feels when you want to DO something... but you feel trapped by your own MIND... and you just CAN'T.
And that's why I do it.
So to bring this home, here's what I have for you.
If you'd like some help implementing this stuff that we just talked about, I've opened a few slots on my calendar to speak with you.
So if being good with women is something you'd like to do, then click on the button below and you'll be taken to the scheduling page, where you can book your free call with me.
I want to make a note here that this is not a sales call.
I hate those things.
The reality is, if you want to do something about your life, you'll do it.
There is no need for me to pressure you.
What will happen on our call is I'll ask you a series of questions that will help you clarify what your ideal dating life would look like...
...what are the obstacles that are standing in your way to reaching it...
...and create an actionable plan that you can put in motion even on your own.
And if I get a feel that we'd work well together, I'll show you how working with me would look like, what are the average results guys experience and what would be expected from you in the process.
So if that sounds like a plan, by all means, click below, and let's schedule a time to speak.
I'll talk to you soon,
Everyone has insecurities and doubts about themselves holding them back from being the best version of who they really are. When I started this program, as a person with low self esteem around women and people in general, I was just wandering about aimlessly in the dark for a solution to my problem with expressing myself around others. I had heard about pick up and the game, however, a lot of the stuff I tried always felt transparent and fake.
Thing is, I truly felt as though I was a great guy, had so much to offer and deserved to get what I wanted. I needed answers, surely people like me aren't doomed to stay suppressed for life?
I came upon this program by chance and applied for a session with Omir. Safe to say the results were enough alone to encourage me to sign up for what would literally be a life altering course.
Right now the results of this program are virtually infinite. I've unlocked the potential in myself not just to attract women but also consummate genuine, comfortable relationships. I was given the tools I need to establish, express and grow my character. As well as my success with women I have also found peace and clarity in other areas of my life such as business as a bi product of accessing my inner confidence. Basically, I'm the man now.
Thanks and I wish anyone and everyone on the journey of self improvement the best.
- Marcus, UK
I had tried every product/method out there but never had consistent results. Name a product, I've done it. I had a lot of painful wasted opportunities - you know those nights when you go home and look in the mirror knowing you wasted yet another night, another chance.
I’m now going out with the skills and confidence to consistently “have a great night” meeting woman.
Just the other night I left a nightclub with a girl in under an hour of meeting her. I’ve gotten a woman’s number in front of her mom during the day. I’ve gone from having a girl go totally cold on me, refusing to give her number (her friends all laughing at me too) to making out with her in 30 minutes. Plus I’m doing all these things stone sober and I even go out alone.
Put your trust in the 4CORE. I was skeptical about them at first due to the simplicity (e.g incantations) but the proof was in the results. I used to get a lump in my throat from anxiety – fixed that in one night. I am able to troubleshoot any state problems that arise in venue.
Let me tell you I had tried EVERYTHING under the sun before this. I can even voice impersonate some pickup gurus. My biggest breakthrough in confidence/approach anxiety has come from this coaching. Results were fast, the tools were simple and I had a lot of fun/pleasure finishing the course. This is the foundation for everything.
Every guy needs to know what it’s like having at least 4 girls on your phone in your back pocket wanting to meet up on the weekend.
- Jared, South Africa
I can't thank you enough. You are the man who managed to turn my life around and make me a better version of me. When I first came to you I was really struggling with approaching girls in just about every situation.
I was trapped in my head and my negative beliefs like in a cage. I didn't had the courage to go up to a beautiful woman and introduce myself - and if in one of the rare cases I actually managed to go up and talk to her, I didn't know how to follow through, meaning I had no clue how I could lead things to the next level. All those hot girls in the club who give you those arrogant bitchy looks were way out of my reach.
With the 4 CORE Program and your book on the side, everything was easy to understand and make sense to me.
My success with girls started increasing with my level of confidence. I never thought I would pick up girls doing push ups in front of them on a public crowded place. With your help I was able to widen my comfort zone massively.
Towards the end of the program, I could easily go up to every girl I liked, no matter how hot she was, I didn't care. So I walked up, started chatting, increased the attraction and then pulled her. I was so confident, sometimes I didn't even say anything, I just pointed at her and they came to me.
I was surprised how much I enjoyed the incantations. In the beginning I wasn't entirely sure if they would work but they did. You just have to keep implementing them over and over again. Thank you again Omir, you changed my life.
- Daniel, Switzerland
With 4CORE I was able to completely change how I think about myself, women and dating. I was able to let go of a lot of stuff that was holding me back, like my neediness and anxiety.
A lot of things started happening that would never happen before, such as women approaching me, and noticing me more wherever I went. Not because of my good looks - I’m kind of average looking - but Omir made me change my self-image, and think differently about myself.
And as I started feeling good about myself, my looks improved as a result. Now I look more attractive to women. Just a few days ago I entered a restaurant and 3 cute blondes stopped talking for a moment, and just looked at me.
I feel that the best part of this program for me is that I got to keep all the techniques with everything I learned, and use it over and over again in different areas of my life - like a system for everything. I can use them by myself and keep improving as much as I want.
I don't know what you’re looking for, but I have to say, expect to get more then what you think you’ll get - if you follow the program and do what Omir tells you to do.
Do the program, enjoy yourself and conquer the life that you deserve!
- Rod, New Zeeland
I joined 4CORE because I wanted to improve my success in the area of meeting women, but little did I know that my whole life will change as a result. When I started, I didn't know how to approach women, had quite a lot of fear and anxiety, and my biggest issue was I didn't feel like I have what it takes for the kind of women I really wanted to date.
I used to try to impress women with cars and success, but with Omir's help I was able to understand where that was coming from - an insecurity, and he showed me how to overcome this. This program helped me overcome my limitations with women, to where now I can say that I am able to meet women anywhere I go. I can connect with them and lead things to where I want them to go. And right now, I am dating 3 different women at the same time.
As a side benefit, with improving my dating life and personal confidence, I started doing better at work and getting better results. This month I got promoted and things are moving into a completely new direction for me.
To anyone thinking of joining the 4CORE, I can only speak from my experience - if success with women is something that you want, 4CORE can deliver in more than just that area. It has definitely changed my confidence, my dating life, but more importantly - my life as a whole. Hope it will affect you as well.
- Will, USA
Watch the interview with one of our star students Jared and his experience with the 4CORE